7 COUPLES ACTIVITIES SCIENTIFICALLY PROVEN TO BRING YOU CLOSER



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  • Never try to recreate old moments. Focus on creating fresh new memories
  • Do what you did at the start of the relationship (mentally and emotionally) and there won't be a finish.
    • This means the excitement
    • The willingness to do things to further the relationship.
  • Relationships don't last because of the good times, but because the bad times were handled with care - they offered the opportunity to start fresh
  • Tip 1: listen to music together.
    • Even in the background.
    • Find Moments to play soothing music naturally.
    • It'll also show us the moods we're both best able to comminiate in. We tend to communicate when we're feeling pain (we express our anger and not explain it).
  • Tip 2: experiment together (do new things together)
    • Don't wanna play a sport that one has a natural advantage in.
    • You get to learn together.
    • Get to be more playful, since it doesn't have significance in the success of the relationship
  • Tip 3: Do something scary together
    • Something daring or challenging for you
    • Something a little outside your comfort zone.
    • Shows how caring your partner is.
  • Tip 4: serve together
    • Volunteer together
    • Teach something together.
    • Build bonds by helping others together. Experience perspective together, gratitude together, get a higher purpose together.
    • We bond over beliefs.
    • Reveals deeper values of your partner.
  • Tip 5: travel together.
    • It can be a small getaway. A days break.
    • Remove distractions - switch off devices etc.
    • Switch off without going somewhere else
  • Tip 6: working out together
    • Do a workout you both don't do all the time.
    • Helps learn how the other person deals with challenges, pain etc.
  • Tip 7: Make time to draw a vision of what you want your relationship to be
    • Both take equal responsibility for bringing excitement to the relationship.
    • Doing it together.
    • Work on what you want the relationship to look like and feel Ike.
    • Build your dreams together
    • Otherwise, one person feels like they missed out